"What term do you employ when you speak of your progenitor? I answered with the term I'd always wanted to employ. Sonovabitch. To his face? she asked. I never see his face. He wears a mask? In a way, yes. Of stone. Of absolute stone"
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The follow-up questions keep trying to normalize the story into a social script: you said that to his face? The speaker’s reply turns the scene inside out. There is no “face” to address because the father has already abdicated personhood. Segal’s clever move is to literalize emotional absence as physical imagery: a mask, then “stone,” then “absolute stone.” The escalation matters. A mask suggests concealment, a choice; stone suggests incapacity, a fundamental deadness. “Absolute” finishes the job, pushing the father from flawed human to immovable object.
Underneath the banter is a portrait of generational damage: a child forced to invent language for a relationship that never functioned. The dialogue’s briskness is the sting; pain is delivered in crisp, almost comedic timing, which makes the hardness feel earned rather than melodramatic. Segal isn’t chasing shock. He’s showing how contempt can be the final form of honesty when tenderness was never available.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Segal, Erich. (2026, January 15). What term do you employ when you speak of your progenitor? I answered with the term I'd always wanted to employ. Sonovabitch. To his face? she asked. I never see his face. He wears a mask? In a way, yes. Of stone. Of absolute stone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-term-do-you-employ-when-you-speak-of-your-173450/
Chicago Style
Segal, Erich. "What term do you employ when you speak of your progenitor? I answered with the term I'd always wanted to employ. Sonovabitch. To his face? she asked. I never see his face. He wears a mask? In a way, yes. Of stone. Of absolute stone." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-term-do-you-employ-when-you-speak-of-your-173450/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What term do you employ when you speak of your progenitor? I answered with the term I'd always wanted to employ. Sonovabitch. To his face? she asked. I never see his face. He wears a mask? In a way, yes. Of stone. Of absolute stone." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-term-do-you-employ-when-you-speak-of-your-173450/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









