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Daily Inspiration Quote by Erich Segal

"What term do you employ when you speak of your progenitor? I answered with the term I'd always wanted to employ. Sonovabitch. To his face? she asked. I never see his face. He wears a mask? In a way, yes. Of stone. Of absolute stone"

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Segal rigs this exchange like a courtroom cross-examination, then lets the witness spit on the oath. The first question is prim, almost anthropological: what do you call your father? “Progenitor” is bloodless on purpose, a word that treats parenthood as biology, not love. The answer detonates that pretense. “Sonovabitch” isn’t just profanity; it’s an act of linguistic repossession. The speaker uses the term he “always wanted” to use, as if the real scandal isn’t the insult but the years of enforced politeness that made it unsayable.

The follow-up questions keep trying to normalize the story into a social script: you said that to his face? The speaker’s reply turns the scene inside out. There is no “face” to address because the father has already abdicated personhood. Segal’s clever move is to literalize emotional absence as physical imagery: a mask, then “stone,” then “absolute stone.” The escalation matters. A mask suggests concealment, a choice; stone suggests incapacity, a fundamental deadness. “Absolute” finishes the job, pushing the father from flawed human to immovable object.

Underneath the banter is a portrait of generational damage: a child forced to invent language for a relationship that never functioned. The dialogue’s briskness is the sting; pain is delivered in crisp, almost comedic timing, which makes the hardness feel earned rather than melodramatic. Segal isn’t chasing shock. He’s showing how contempt can be the final form of honesty when tenderness was never available.

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Erich Segal

Erich Segal (June 16, 1937 - January 17, 2010) was a Novelist from USA.

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