"What the nation's built on is discussion, contradiction and growth, and at the moment you can't discuss anything. If you do start to discuss it, you get criticized. If people hate us, you have to find out why and try to solve that problem"
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The subtext is less "everyone be nicer" than "we've replaced democratic argument with reputational warfare". "If you do start to discuss it, you get criticized" isn’t a complaint about disagreement; it’s about how disagreement now arrives preloaded with moral judgment. Sutherland’s phrasing implies a cultural climate where the penalty is immediate and public, and where the goal shifts from persuading to punishing.
His last sentence makes the real wager: instead of dismissing hostility as irrational or evil, treat it as information. "If people hate us" is bracingly unsentimental, refusing the comforting story that America is merely misunderstood. As an actor - a profession built on inhabiting other motives - he’s arguing for empathy as strategy, not as sentimentality: diagnose the grievance, address the cause, reduce the heat. It’s a call to restore debate as maintenance work, the unglamorous labor that keeps a plural society from calcifying into camps.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sutherland, Donald. (2026, January 15). What the nation's built on is discussion, contradiction and growth, and at the moment you can't discuss anything. If you do start to discuss it, you get criticized. If people hate us, you have to find out why and try to solve that problem. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-the-nations-built-on-is-discussion-143714/
Chicago Style
Sutherland, Donald. "What the nation's built on is discussion, contradiction and growth, and at the moment you can't discuss anything. If you do start to discuss it, you get criticized. If people hate us, you have to find out why and try to solve that problem." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-the-nations-built-on-is-discussion-143714/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What the nation's built on is discussion, contradiction and growth, and at the moment you can't discuss anything. If you do start to discuss it, you get criticized. If people hate us, you have to find out why and try to solve that problem." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-the-nations-built-on-is-discussion-143714/. Accessed 14 Feb. 2026.







