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Faith & Spirit Quote by Robert Brault

"What we find in a soul mate is not something wild to tame, but something wild to run with"

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Brault flips the standard romance narrative on its back: the soul mate isn’t a beautiful mess you domesticate, but a co-conspirator in your untidiness. The line works because it steals the language of control - “tame” - and refuses it, insisting that intimacy isn’t a civilizing project. The “wild” here isn’t chaos for chaos’s sake; it’s the part of a person that doesn’t perform well under surveillance: appetite, ambition, weirdness, risk, the private tempo of joy. By repeating the word, Brault reframes wildness from a problem to solve into a resource to share.

The subtext is quietly anti-romcom. So much cultural storytelling treats love as renovation: you smooth each other’s rough edges, trade quirks for compatibility, prove devotion through self-editing. Brault argues the opposite kind of commitment, one that says: I won’t make you smaller to make us easier. “Run with” is the key verb - kinetic, egalitarian, unromantic in the best way. It implies pace-matching, consent, and stamina. Not “lead,” not “save,” not “fix.” Just move together, fast enough that pretense can’t keep up.

Contextually, this sits in the late-20th/early-21st-century pivot toward self-actualization as a romantic expectation: partners as teammates in becoming, not guardians of propriety. It’s a philosophy of love that prizes freedom without drifting into detachment, making a case for relationship as mutual expansion rather than mutual containment.

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TopicSoulmate
Source
Later attribution: Sanctuary (Patrick Barrett, Susy Flory, 2022) modern compilationISBN: 9781496445001 · ID: 1NRUEAAAQBAJ
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brault, Robert. (2026, March 4). What we find in a soul mate is not something wild to tame, but something wild to run with. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-we-find-in-a-soul-mate-is-not-something-wild-183915/

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Brault, Robert. "What we find in a soul mate is not something wild to tame, but something wild to run with." FixQuotes. March 4, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-we-find-in-a-soul-mate-is-not-something-wild-183915/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What we find in a soul mate is not something wild to tame, but something wild to run with." FixQuotes, 4 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-we-find-in-a-soul-mate-is-not-something-wild-183915/. Accessed 24 Mar. 2026.

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Robert Brault

Robert Brault (born 1938) is a Philosopher from USA.

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