"What we really are matters more than what other people think of us"
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The line works because it’s both intimate and strategic. Intimate, because it speaks to the psychic damage of being judged by an occupying power and by one’s own divided society. Strategic, because it warns against a politics driven by optics. Newly independent nations are especially vulnerable to performing for an external audience: foreign capitals, global markets, international prestige. Nehru is pushing against the temptation to substitute applause for principles, to confuse reputation with reality.
There’s also a disciplined egalitarianism in the phrasing. “Other people” is deliberately vague: it levels the playing field between the colonial administrator, the party insider, the neighbor, the press. Everyone’s opinion is demoted; none becomes the final court of appeal. That’s how a leader tries to cultivate civic adulthood: not by inflaming resentment, but by insisting on an internal standard that can survive both criticism and praise.
In context, it reads as a nation-building ethic: don’t chase the world’s approval; earn the right to stand on your own.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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