"What we share with another ceases to be our own"
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The phrasing is deceptively simple. “Ceases” carries legal force, like a transfer of title. Not “changes” or “grows,” but ends. Quinet is warning that communication is irreversible: once a thought is offered up, it can be repeated, misheard, weaponized, remixed. The subtext is a historian’s fatalism. History is made of what people thought they owned - their faith, their slogans, their national myths - and then lost control of when the crowd took possession.
Context sharpens the edge. Quinet lived through the aftershocks of 1789, the revolutions of 1830 and 1848, and the rise and collapse of regimes that constantly rebranded “the people.” In that churn, sharing isn’t just intimacy; it’s politics. A belief circulated becomes doctrine or propaganda. A personal wound narrated becomes a cause. Even memory, once published, is no longer memory but evidence, contested and annotated by strangers.
The line also contains an ethical dare: if you want communion, you must accept dispossession. Sharing isn’t generosity as much as surrender - and Quinet, chronicler of collective passions, knows surrender is how the private becomes historical.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Quinet, Edgar. (2026, January 14). What we share with another ceases to be our own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-we-share-with-another-ceases-to-be-our-own-3518/
Chicago Style
Quinet, Edgar. "What we share with another ceases to be our own." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-we-share-with-another-ceases-to-be-our-own-3518/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What we share with another ceases to be our own." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-we-share-with-another-ceases-to-be-our-own-3518/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







