"What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others"
About this Quote
The subtext is political as much as personal. Confucius isn’t speaking as a mystic promising inner peace; he’s a civic repairman trying to stabilize a world of fraying hierarchies and constant conflict. His moral philosophy (ren, often translated as humaneness) depends on relationships functioning without constant coercion. This maxim is portable: it can be applied by rulers to subjects, parents to children, officials to rivals. Its genius is that it doesn’t require a shared theology, only a shared nervous system.
There’s also a deliberate modesty to the phrasing. It doesn’t claim you can fully know what others need; it asks you to start with what you know you can’t tolerate. That makes it harder to weaponize as “I’d like this, so you must,” and easier to use as a minimal standard of decency. Confucius offers ethics not as self-expression, but as social infrastructure.
Quote Details
| Topic | Ethics & Morality |
|---|---|
| Source | Analects (Lunyu) — Chinese: “己所不欲,勿施于人” (commonly translated “Do not do to others what you do not want done to yourself”), traditionally attributed to Confucius (Analects). |
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