"What you hide away is lost / What you give away is yours"
About this Quote
The second line flips ownership into something almost paradoxical. “What you give away is yours” reframes possession as a legacy of action rather than a claim of control. The gift becomes yours because it binds others to you: through gratitude, story, reputation, obligation. In a culture where honor is communal and memory is currency, giving is an investment in permanence. Rustaveli suggests that the only durable property is what survives as relationship and narrative.
What makes the aphorism work is its stark accounting language applied to the soul. It reads like advice, but it’s also a quiet indictment of fear: the fear that generosity makes you smaller. Rustaveli argues the opposite. Hoarding shrinks the self into private darkness; giving enlarges it into the public record. The couplet doesn’t romanticize sacrifice; it gives it a hard, almost transactional logic. If you want something to remain yours, don’t lock it up. Let it live elsewhere, where it can’t be taken away by time in the same way.
Quote Details
| Topic | Kindness |
|---|---|
| Source | Cited as Rustaveli in New East Digital Archive article (15 June 2020) referencing his couplet (English translation as printed there). |
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