"What you really want for yourself is always trying to break through, just as a cooling breeze flows through an open window on a hot day. Your part is to open the windows of your mind"
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The subtext is a quiet accusation. If “what you really want” is always trying to break through, then your dissatisfaction isn’t proof that desire is unrealistic; it’s evidence you’ve barricaded yourself. “Your part” narrows agency to a single, non-negotiable job: stop resisting. Howard’s language makes resistance feel unnatural, sweaty, self-inflicted - the “hot day” of mental habits, compulsions, and borrowed wants. The breeze becomes the authentic self, or truth, or clarity (Howard’s work often circles spiritual wakefulness and psychological unmasking), and the mind becomes the bottleneck.
Contextually, this sits in the postwar American lineage of inward-turning spirituality packaged as practical guidance: less therapy-speak, more parable. It’s anti-hustle before that was a hashtag, but it’s not passive. Opening “the windows of your mind” implies vigilance: noticing fear, ego, social conditioning, and the small daily choices that shut us down. The image is domestic and ordinary, which is the point: enlightenment isn’t fireworks; it’s ventilation.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Howard, Vernon. (2026, January 17). What you really want for yourself is always trying to break through, just as a cooling breeze flows through an open window on a hot day. Your part is to open the windows of your mind. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-you-really-want-for-yourself-is-always-71794/
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Howard, Vernon. "What you really want for yourself is always trying to break through, just as a cooling breeze flows through an open window on a hot day. Your part is to open the windows of your mind." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-you-really-want-for-yourself-is-always-71794/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What you really want for yourself is always trying to break through, just as a cooling breeze flows through an open window on a hot day. Your part is to open the windows of your mind." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/what-you-really-want-for-yourself-is-always-71794/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







