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Love Quote by Brian Celio

"What's love if not the thing you'll do anything and everything to get back once lost? What's hate if not the thing you'll do anything and everything to get rid of once found?"

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Celio’s lines treat love and hate less like feelings and more like missions: once they’re in motion, they reorganize your priorities, your dignity, your sense of self. The clever pivot is the symmetry. Love is framed as an absence that turns predatory - not “to have,” but to recover, to rewind time, to restore a version of life that now feels like the only tolerable one. Hate, by contrast, is a presence that contaminates; you don’t chase it, you discover it living inside you, and then you spend your energy trying to evict it. Both states demand “anything and everything,” which is the point: the extremes aren’t opposites, they’re parallel engines of obsession.

The subtext is a warning about the romantic storytelling we’re trained to admire. In novels and in real life, “I’d do anything for love” reads as devotion, almost heroic. Celio quietly flips the moral valence by pairing it with the same language for hate. When the script is identical, the reader is forced to see how intensity can masquerade as virtue. It’s not passion that saves you; it’s what passion conscripts you into doing.

Contextually, this feels born of contemporary emotional whiplash: breakups that become identity crises, political outrage that becomes daily diet, the way modern life monetizes fixation. The rhetorical questions aren’t seeking answers; they’re staging a mirror. If love and hate both push you toward totalizing behavior, the real drama is not which one you feel, but what you’re willing to become under its command.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Celio, Brian. (2026, January 16). What's love if not the thing you'll do anything and everything to get back once lost? What's hate if not the thing you'll do anything and everything to get rid of once found? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-love-if-not-the-thing-youll-do-anything-and-109550/

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Celio, Brian. "What's love if not the thing you'll do anything and everything to get back once lost? What's hate if not the thing you'll do anything and everything to get rid of once found?" FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-love-if-not-the-thing-youll-do-anything-and-109550/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What's love if not the thing you'll do anything and everything to get back once lost? What's hate if not the thing you'll do anything and everything to get rid of once found?" FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-love-if-not-the-thing-youll-do-anything-and-109550/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Brian Celio (born July 16, 1981) is a Novelist from USA.

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