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Daily Inspiration Quote by Ava Gardner

"What's the point? My face, shall we say, looks lived in"

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Ava Gardner doesn’t plead for sympathy here; she deadpans her way past it. “What’s the point?” is a shrug aimed at an industry built on denial: denial of age, of appetite, of consequence. The follow-up lands like a cocktail served with a raised eyebrow: “My face, shall we say, looks lived in.” That little hedge - “shall we say” - is doing heavy work. It signals both modesty and control, the star managing her own myth while puncturing it. She’s not confessing damage so much as claiming authorship over it.

The phrase “lived in” is the masterstroke. It refuses the usual vocabulary of Hollywood decay (washed up, worn out) and replaces it with something almost architectural: a face with history, with nights and mornings, with choices. It’s sensual and defiant at once, carrying the implication that experience has left marks because experience was the point. Gardner’s persona always flirted with scandal and self-possession; the line reads like her answer to the camera’s tyranny of perfection. If the close-up is supposed to freeze you at your most marketable, she offers time as a kind of credential.

Culturally, it’s a preemptive strike against the gossip economy: she names the evidence before anyone else can weaponize it. Underneath the wit is a hard truth about women’s labor in fame - you’re expected to be unforgettable, but not allowed to look like you’ve actually lived. Gardner makes “lived in” sound like victory.

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Gardner, Ava. (2026, January 16). What's the point? My face, shall we say, looks lived in. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-the-point-my-face-shall-we-say-looks-lived-137865/

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Gardner, Ava. "What's the point? My face, shall we say, looks lived in." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-the-point-my-face-shall-we-say-looks-lived-137865/.

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"What's the point? My face, shall we say, looks lived in." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-the-point-my-face-shall-we-say-looks-lived-137865/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Ava Gardner (December 24, 1922 - January 25, 1990) was a Actress from USA.

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