"What's the point of being negative or fearful? We can't control it"
About this Quote
Then comes the pivot: "We can't control it". That "it" is strategically vague. It could mean the future, the world, the crisis at hand. It could also mean the emotions themselves. Either reading lets the quote do two jobs at once: it pressures you to stop indulging fear, while offering you an alibi for having it. If you can't control the external chaos, why feed it with internal dread? If you can't control the fear response, why punish yourself for feeling it? The subtext is self-protection: permission to drop the exhausting performance of composure.
As an actor, Ashford's appeal is less philosophical than practical. The line sounds like something said between takes, or in an interview where optimism is part of the brand - calm, relatable, clean enough to travel. Its intent isn’t to solve anxiety; it’s to reframe it as unproductive noise. The cultural context here is late-20th/21st-century coping talk: resilience packaged as common sense, control theory distilled into a sentence you can repeat when the news won't let you breathe.
Quote Details
| Topic | Fear |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ashford, Matthew. (2026, January 17). What's the point of being negative or fearful? We can't control it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-the-point-of-being-negative-or-fearful-we-77316/
Chicago Style
Ashford, Matthew. "What's the point of being negative or fearful? We can't control it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-the-point-of-being-negative-or-fearful-we-77316/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"What's the point of being negative or fearful? We can't control it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/whats-the-point-of-being-negative-or-fearful-we-77316/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.







