"When a human being becomes so still that they begin to lose awareness of their gender, and they are simply looking into that abyss where there is no notion of self whatsoever, the world disappears. And that's really the only place to go. It's the only place to remain"
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The specific intent is evangelical, not descriptive. Cohen isn’t offering one possible mystical experience; he’s prescribing a single destination: “the only place to go.” That absolutism functions as pressure. If you’re not aiming for ego-death, you’re not just missing out, you’re wasting your life in the wrong neighborhood of consciousness.
Gender enters as both a provocation and a credibility play. By naming gender as something that can fall away, Cohen signals a radical unhooking from identity. It also carries subtext: contemporary identity debates are noisy, personal, and politically charged; he’s positioning enlightenment as an exit ramp from that entire arena. The risk is that it can sound like bypassing - treating embodied, lived realities as mere distractions. The rhetorical move turns a deeply social category into an instrument for making “self” feel optional.
Contextually, this is classic nondual/Zen-inflected language repackaged for a modern self-help marketplace: edgy, totalizing, cinematic. The abyss is doing marketing work. It makes transcendence feel not just serene but inevitable and, crucially, superior to ordinary life.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cohen, Andrew. (2026, January 17). When a human being becomes so still that they begin to lose awareness of their gender, and they are simply looking into that abyss where there is no notion of self whatsoever, the world disappears. And that's really the only place to go. It's the only place to remain. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-a-human-being-becomes-so-still-that-they-38231/
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Cohen, Andrew. "When a human being becomes so still that they begin to lose awareness of their gender, and they are simply looking into that abyss where there is no notion of self whatsoever, the world disappears. And that's really the only place to go. It's the only place to remain." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-a-human-being-becomes-so-still-that-they-38231/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When a human being becomes so still that they begin to lose awareness of their gender, and they are simply looking into that abyss where there is no notion of self whatsoever, the world disappears. And that's really the only place to go. It's the only place to remain." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-a-human-being-becomes-so-still-that-they-38231/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







