"When a man is at his wits' end, it is not a cowardly thing to pray, it is the only way he can get in touch with Reality"
About this Quote
The key phrase is "wits' end" - a psychological and moral brink where cleverness, planning, and willpower have failed. Chambers is writing in an era when industrial modernity is teaching people to trust technique and control, while World War I is exposing how thin that faith can be. He served as a YMCA chaplain to troops; he knew what it looks like when human agency collapses under grief, fear, and chaos. In that setting, calling prayer "the only way" is not pious exaggeration so much as a pastoral provocation: stop confusing activity with authority.
The subtext is also a rebuke to pride disguised as pragmatism. The real cowardice, he implies, is clinging to the illusion of mastery because surrender feels humiliating. "Reality" is capitalized like a proper noun, nudging the reader toward a specific metaphysics: God is not a helpful idea inside the world; God is the ground truth the world sits on. Prayer becomes less about asking for outcomes and more about re-entering the actual order of things.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chambers, Oswald. (2026, February 16). When a man is at his wits' end, it is not a cowardly thing to pray, it is the only way he can get in touch with Reality. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-a-man-is-at-his-wits-end-it-is-not-a-1172/
Chicago Style
Chambers, Oswald. "When a man is at his wits' end, it is not a cowardly thing to pray, it is the only way he can get in touch with Reality." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-a-man-is-at-his-wits-end-it-is-not-a-1172/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When a man is at his wits' end, it is not a cowardly thing to pray, it is the only way he can get in touch with Reality." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-a-man-is-at-his-wits-end-it-is-not-a-1172/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.













