"When an opponent comes forward, move in and greet him; if he wants to pull back, send him on his way"
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Then comes the second half: “if he wants to pull back, send him on his way.” No chase, no ego, no need to prove dominance by pursuit. In Aikido’s logic, running after a retreating opponent is how you get dragged into their rhythm, their traps, their panic. Let them go and you keep your center. It’s also a philosophy of conflict that avoids the addictive loop of escalation: don’t reward aggression with the kind of opposition it can feed on, and don’t turn de-escalation into a new battlefield.
Context matters: Ueshiba founded Aikido in a Japan shaped by militarism, war, and postwar reconstruction. His art positioned itself as “budo” with a conscience - technique built around blending, redirecting, and minimizing harm. The subtext is control without obsession: meet what comes, release what leaves, and deny violence the emotional fuel it’s counting on.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ueshiba, Morihei. (2026, January 15). When an opponent comes forward, move in and greet him; if he wants to pull back, send him on his way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-an-opponent-comes-forward-move-in-and-greet-71528/
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Ueshiba, Morihei. "When an opponent comes forward, move in and greet him; if he wants to pull back, send him on his way." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-an-opponent-comes-forward-move-in-and-greet-71528/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When an opponent comes forward, move in and greet him; if he wants to pull back, send him on his way." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-an-opponent-comes-forward-move-in-and-greet-71528/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.







