"When angry count to ten before you speak. If very angry, count to one hundred"
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The subtext is distinctly Enlightenment-era: emotion is not a truth-teller, it’s a force to be governed. Jefferson doesn’t argue you out of rage; he prescribes a delay, betting on time as a solvent. That’s shrewd because it acknowledges what moralizing ignores: anger feels urgent. Counting doesn’t deny the feeling; it renegotiates its timeline. Ten seconds is a speed bump. One hundred is a roadblock.
Context matters. Jefferson lived in a political culture where reputations were currency and duels were a real endpoint of “just saying what I think.” He also knew the weaponization of language firsthand: partisan newspapers, personal attacks, the fragile legitimacy of a young republic. In that world, unfiltered speech isn’t authenticity; it’s a liability with consequences.
The rhetorical trick is the escalation. “Count to ten” flatters the listener with manageability; “if very angry, count to one hundred” admits that some emotions are too hot for civility alone. It’s not about politeness. It’s about keeping power - personal and political - from being hijacked by a passing surge.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anger |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Letter to Thomas Jefferson Smith (Feb. 21, 1825) (Thomas Jefferson, 1825)
Evidence: When angry, count ten, before you speak; if very angry, an hundred.. This line appears as item #10 in Jefferson’s “Decalogue of Canons for observation in practical life,” included in a letter dated February 21, 1825, sent from Monticello to Thomas Jefferson Smith (via Smith’s father, John Spear Smith). Monticello’s encyclopedia entry explicitly identifies that 1825 letter and gives the wording above; it also notes the original manuscript is in the Library of Congress (Thomas Jefferson Papers) and that a transcription is available at Founders Online (not accessible to me due to robots.txt restrictions). The common modern rewording (“count to ten before you speak. If very angry, count to one hundred”) is a paraphrase/modernization of Jefferson’s punctuation and “an hundred” wording. Other candidates (1) the Ultimate Book of Quotations (Joseph Demakis, 2012) compilation95.0% ... When angry count to ten before you speak. If very angry, count to one hundred. Thomas Jefferson When angry, count... |
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