"When angry count to ten before you speak. If very angry, count to one hundred"
About this Quote
The subtext is distinctly Enlightenment-era: emotion is not a truth-teller, it’s a force to be governed. Jefferson doesn’t argue you out of rage; he prescribes a delay, betting on time as a solvent. That’s shrewd because it acknowledges what moralizing ignores: anger feels urgent. Counting doesn’t deny the feeling; it renegotiates its timeline. Ten seconds is a speed bump. One hundred is a roadblock.
Context matters. Jefferson lived in a political culture where reputations were currency and duels were a real endpoint of “just saying what I think.” He also knew the weaponization of language firsthand: partisan newspapers, personal attacks, the fragile legitimacy of a young republic. In that world, unfiltered speech isn’t authenticity; it’s a liability with consequences.
The rhetorical trick is the escalation. “Count to ten” flatters the listener with manageability; “if very angry, count to one hundred” admits that some emotions are too hot for civility alone. It’s not about politeness. It’s about keeping power - personal and political - from being hijacked by a passing surge.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anger |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Jefferson, Thomas. (2026, January 14). When angry count to ten before you speak. If very angry, count to one hundred. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-angry-count-to-ten-before-you-speak-if-very-27381/
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Jefferson, Thomas. "When angry count to ten before you speak. If very angry, count to one hundred." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-angry-count-to-ten-before-you-speak-if-very-27381/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When angry count to ten before you speak. If very angry, count to one hundred." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-angry-count-to-ten-before-you-speak-if-very-27381/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.








