"When anything goes, it's women who lose"
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The intent is provocation with a point. Paglia is needling the kind of progressive optimism that treats liberation as an automatic moral upgrade. Her subtext: heterosexual sex is not a neutral marketplace where everyone bargains from equal leverage. Biology, social policing, pregnancy risk, and the enduring power of male desire as a status engine make “anything goes” feel like opportunity to some and coercive drift to others. If there are no norms, no courtship rituals, no expectations of care, women are often left managing consequences alone while men can frame the same scene as adventure.
Context matters: Paglia rose as a contrarian feminist voice in late-20th-century debates about pornography, campus sex, and “victim feminism.” She’s not arguing for prudishness so much as for realism: culture’s guardrails are imperfect, sometimes hypocritical, but their removal doesn’t magically produce equality. The line works because it’s blunt enough to offend both camps at once, forcing a question modern culture still dodges: whose freedom is being expanded, and who is being asked to absorb the risk.
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"When anything goes, it's women who lose." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-anything-goes-its-women-who-lose-49603/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











