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Marriage Quote by Courteney Cox

"When David Arquette and I got engaged we started therapy together. I'd heard that the first year of marriage is the hardest, so we decided to work through all that stuff early"

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Starting couples therapy before the wedding reads like both a flex and a quiet confession: Hollywood romance may be glamorous, but it’s also a high-risk industry. Courteney Cox frames the move as practical, almost strategic. She’s not selling soulmates; she’s pitching maintenance. The line works because it borrows the language of scheduling and optimization ("we decided to work through... early"), turning intimacy into something you can plan for, like rehearsals before opening night.

The subtext is more vulnerable. Cox admits she’s entering marriage with eyes open to failure rates, tabloid pressure, and the particular strain of two careers built on performance. Engagements are usually narrated as a crescendo. She narrates hers as a diagnostic phase. That inversion signals maturity, but it also hints at anxiety: if the first year is the hardest, why wait to discover your fault lines under legal, public, and emotional amplification?

There’s also a generational, late-90s/early-2000s cultural pivot embedded here: therapy as stigma giving way to therapy as a badge of emotional literacy. Cox positions herself inside that shift, normalizing help not as crisis response but as preventative care. The intent isn’t to sound enlightened; it’s to sound responsible. And that’s the real cultural tell: love, in this telling, isn’t proven by suffering through the “hardest year.” It’s proven by refusing to romanticize the hard part at all.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cox, Courteney. (2026, January 17). When David Arquette and I got engaged we started therapy together. I'd heard that the first year of marriage is the hardest, so we decided to work through all that stuff early. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-david-arquette-and-i-got-engaged-we-started-49950/

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Cox, Courteney. "When David Arquette and I got engaged we started therapy together. I'd heard that the first year of marriage is the hardest, so we decided to work through all that stuff early." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-david-arquette-and-i-got-engaged-we-started-49950/.

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"When David Arquette and I got engaged we started therapy together. I'd heard that the first year of marriage is the hardest, so we decided to work through all that stuff early." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-david-arquette-and-i-got-engaged-we-started-49950/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

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Courteney Cox (born June 15, 1964) is a Actress from USA.

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