"When defeat is inevitable, it is wisest to yield"
About this Quote
The intent is disciplinary. Quintilian is shaping a kind of civic masculinity that isn’t obsessed with performative resistance. Yielding, here, is not cowardice but strategic humility: preserve your credibility, keep your resources, live to argue the next motion. The subtext is that there’s an art to losing well. In a culture that prized honor and public reputation, a doomed fight could turn you into a spectacle. Better to exit with agency than be dragged out as an example.
Context matters: Quintilian worked under emperors, in an environment where the boundaries of permissible speech were real and sometimes lethal. “Defeat” could mean more than losing an argument; it could mean provoking authority. The line quietly acknowledges Rome’s hierarchy while teaching students how to navigate it without confusing martyrdom with virtue. Yield isn’t moral capitulation; it’s rhetorical triage.
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| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
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Quintilian. "When defeat is inevitable, it is wisest to yield." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-defeat-is-inevitable-it-is-wisest-to-yield-89746/.
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"When defeat is inevitable, it is wisest to yield." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-defeat-is-inevitable-it-is-wisest-to-yield-89746/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.









