"When friends stop being frank and useful to each other, the whole world loses some of its radiance"
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“Frank and useful” is the engine. Frankness implies the courage to puncture self-mythology; usefulness implies love with teeth, the kind that helps you live better rather than simply feel affirmed. Broyard is pushing back against the social drift toward friendship as pure comfort - a soft-focus relationship maintained by tact, flattery, and strategic silence. He’s warning that when friends become audiences, the bond survives but the illumination dies.
The subtext is almost professional: critics believe in candor as care. Broyard’s best-known public work (his criticism and later his writing on illness) treats clarity as a form of intimacy. In that context, friendship becomes a private version of criticism at its best: not cruelty, not performance, but attention. To be “useful” is to take another person seriously enough to offer correction, perspective, or hard-won knowledge.
The leap to “the whole world” is the rhetorical trick that makes it sting. He turns a domestic failure - two friends choosing politeness over truth - into a cultural loss. Small acts of evasion don’t stay small; they accumulate into a dimmer public life, less vivid because fewer people are willing to tell each other what’s real.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Broyard, Anatole. (2026, January 16). When friends stop being frank and useful to each other, the whole world loses some of its radiance. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-friends-stop-being-frank-and-useful-to-each-137113/
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Broyard, Anatole. "When friends stop being frank and useful to each other, the whole world loses some of its radiance." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-friends-stop-being-frank-and-useful-to-each-137113/.
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"When friends stop being frank and useful to each other, the whole world loses some of its radiance." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-friends-stop-being-frank-and-useful-to-each-137113/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.











