"When I choose a role it's either because I recognise the man, or that I'm very curious to know him. If I neither recognise nor know him, then it is better that I don't play him"
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The subtext is craft ethics. “Recognise the man” signals empathy, not resemblance: a felt understanding of fear, vanity, tenderness, shame. “Very curious to know him” frames preparation as investigation rather than conquest, like he’s meeting a stranger with consent and patience. Then comes the boundary: if he can’t recognise or learn the character, he won’t take the part. That isn’t modesty; it’s quality control, and a subtle critique of performances built on gimmickry, accent-as-identity, or surface tics mistaken for depth.
Context matters: Kingsley’s career toggles between real figures (Gandhi) and heightened genre roles, but his best work is anchored by psychological clarity. This quote also brushes against contemporary casting debates without naming them. It implies that access to a character isn’t purely technical; it’s relational and moral. He’s not arguing actors should only play themselves. He’s arguing that every convincing performance starts with a human bridge, and if you can’t build one, the most professional move is to walk away.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kingsley, Ben. (2026, January 17). When I choose a role it's either because I recognise the man, or that I'm very curious to know him. If I neither recognise nor know him, then it is better that I don't play him. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-choose-a-role-its-either-because-i-63044/
Chicago Style
Kingsley, Ben. "When I choose a role it's either because I recognise the man, or that I'm very curious to know him. If I neither recognise nor know him, then it is better that I don't play him." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-choose-a-role-its-either-because-i-63044/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I choose a role it's either because I recognise the man, or that I'm very curious to know him. If I neither recognise nor know him, then it is better that I don't play him." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-choose-a-role-its-either-because-i-63044/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


