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Motherhood Quote by Whitney Houston

"When I decided to be a singer, my mother warned me I'd be alone a lot. Basically we all are. Loneliness comes with life"

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Houston takes a backstage warning about a touring life and flips it into a bleak little thesis about being human. The first line is intimate and practical: a mother, trying to protect her kid, names the unglamorous cost of chasing a dream. It’s almost a cliché of show business, the lonely hotel room behind the spotlight. Then Houston pivots: "Basically we all are". That "basically" is doing the heavy lifting. It shrugs off the fantasy that loneliness is a special tax paid by artists and celebrities, insisting it’s the baseline condition, not the exception.

The intent feels both self-soothing and disarming. By universalizing loneliness, she makes her own isolation feel less like failure and more like physics. There’s also a quiet defense against the voyeurism that trails fame: if you think the famous are uniquely tragic, she’s telling you you’re projecting. The subtext is that connection is intermittent even when you’re surrounded by people - handlers, crowds, applause. Being seen is not the same as being known.

Context sharpens the line. Houston’s career was built on a voice that could sound like pure communion, a kind of mass intimacy beamed through radios and arena speakers. Yet her public life became a case study in how adoration can coexist with profound disconnection. "Loneliness comes with life" reads less like resignation than like a hard-earned mantra: if loneliness is part of the deal for everyone, you stop treating it as a scandal and start treating it as something to manage, name, and survive.

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Whitney Houston (August 9, 1963 - February 11, 2012) was a Musician from USA.

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