"When I do a concert and people put their hands in the air, they're doing it on their own"
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The subtext lands harder when you remember who Spector was and what she survived. As the voice of the Ronettes, she helped define the ecstatic architecture of girl-group pop, then spent years in a private nightmare shaped by possession and coercion. Against that history, “they’re doing it on their own” reads like more than crowd commentary; it’s an ethic. She’s drawing a bright line between performance and ownership, between influence and control. It’s a small sentence that quietly rejects the abusive logic that artists (or men, or fame, or producers) get to claim your body.
It also punctures a common rock-and-pop mythology: the frontperson as puppet master, “I had them in the palm of my hand.” Spector flips the brag into a tribute. The crowd’s gesture becomes self-authored, a kind of everyday liberation enacted in public. In a concert hall, with the lights and the volume and the communal rush, she’s insisting the most important force isn’t the star’s charisma. It’s the audience’s choice to meet it.
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Spector, Ronnie. (2026, January 16). When I do a concert and people put their hands in the air, they're doing it on their own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-do-a-concert-and-people-put-their-hands-in-98546/
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Spector, Ronnie. "When I do a concert and people put their hands in the air, they're doing it on their own." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-do-a-concert-and-people-put-their-hands-in-98546/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I do a concert and people put their hands in the air, they're doing it on their own." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-do-a-concert-and-people-put-their-hands-in-98546/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

