"When I entered college, I wasn't sure what I was going to do. My advisor happened to be from the theater department, and he encouraged me to take some classes there, which I did"
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Chance wears a friendly face in David Selby’s recollection, and that’s the point: the origin story isn’t mythic destiny, it’s bureaucratic luck. An unsure freshman lands with an advisor from the theater department, gets nudged into a few classes, and a life gets rerouted. The line is disarmingly modest, almost anti-heroic, but it quietly argues against the cult of the “calling.” Selby frames his career less as a lightning-bolt epiphany than as a series of practical permissions: someone in authority noticed an opening and made it feel legitimate to explore it.
The intent reads like a small corrective to the glamorized narrative we expect from actors. Instead of “I always knew,” we get “I wasn’t sure,” a confession that aligns him with the majority of people who arrive at college as unfinished drafts. The subtext is about access and mentorship: talent may be real, but it needs an on-ramp. “Happened to be” does heavy lifting, acknowledging how arbitrary gatekeeping can be. If the advisor had been from accounting, the story might have narrowed into a different adulthood.
Context matters here because Selby comes from a generation when theater was often treated as extracurricular, not a respectable plan. His phrasing makes the theater department sound like a side door you’re lucky to find, not the front entrance. It’s a tidy snapshot of how careers in the arts often begin: not with certainty, but with a nudge that turns curiosity into permission, and permission into momentum.
The intent reads like a small corrective to the glamorized narrative we expect from actors. Instead of “I always knew,” we get “I wasn’t sure,” a confession that aligns him with the majority of people who arrive at college as unfinished drafts. The subtext is about access and mentorship: talent may be real, but it needs an on-ramp. “Happened to be” does heavy lifting, acknowledging how arbitrary gatekeeping can be. If the advisor had been from accounting, the story might have narrowed into a different adulthood.
Context matters here because Selby comes from a generation when theater was often treated as extracurricular, not a respectable plan. His phrasing makes the theater department sound like a side door you’re lucky to find, not the front entrance. It’s a tidy snapshot of how careers in the arts often begin: not with certainty, but with a nudge that turns curiosity into permission, and permission into momentum.
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