"When I hear somebody sigh, 'Life is hard,' I am always tempted to ask, 'Compared to what?'"
About this Quote
As a journalist, Harris worked in a medium allergic to vague claims. His move reads like newsroom discipline applied to everyday despair: define your terms, name your comparison set, show your work. The subtext is less "stop whining" than "stop lying to yourself". Because if you can't state what you're comparing life to, you're probably comparing it to fantasy, or to someone else's highlight reel, or to an earlier version of yourself that you've edited into an Eden.
The line also carries postwar, mid-century pragmatism: a generation steeped in Depression memory and global conflict had reason to distrust abstract suffering. Yet it isn't cold. It offers a kind of agency. Once you specify the comparison - childhood, privilege, expectations, another person's life - you can adjust it, challenge it, or choose a better one. The question turns hardship from fate into a problem you can actually describe, which is the first step toward enduring it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Life |
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| Source | Sydney J. Harris — quotation listed on Wikiquote (Sydney J. Harris page). Original publication not specifically cited there. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Harris, Sydney J. (2026, January 16). When I hear somebody sigh, 'Life is hard,' I am always tempted to ask, 'Compared to what?'. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-hear-somebody-sigh-life-is-hard-i-am-106909/
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Harris, Sydney J. "When I hear somebody sigh, 'Life is hard,' I am always tempted to ask, 'Compared to what?'." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-hear-somebody-sigh-life-is-hard-i-am-106909/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I hear somebody sigh, 'Life is hard,' I am always tempted to ask, 'Compared to what?'." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-hear-somebody-sigh-life-is-hard-i-am-106909/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.







