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Daily Inspiration Quote by Casey Affleck

"When I like someone a lot, I get scared that I'll let them down. My fear of sucking is worst when I feel like someone thinks I'm good!"

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Affleck’s line lands because it flips the usual celebrity confidence script into something uncomfortably familiar: the more someone believes in you, the more dangerous you feel. It’s not fear of failure in the abstract; it’s fear of being revealed as an error in someone else’s judgment. That subtle shift makes the anxiety relational. You’re not just bombing a job, you’re disappointing a person who took a risk on you emotionally.

The blunt phrasing, “fear of sucking,” matters. It’s deliberately unglamorous, the kind of locker-room honesty that resists therapy-speak and PR polish. As an actor, Affleck lives inside evaluation systems: auditions, reviews, box office, awards, internet verdicts. “Someone thinks I’m good” isn’t a warm compliment; it’s a spotlight. Admiration becomes pressure, affection becomes a performance metric. That’s why liking someone “a lot” raises the stakes: intimacy turns into a stage where you can’t hide behind competence.

The subtext is imposter syndrome with a moral edge. He’s not only worried he’ll fall short; he’s worried he doesn’t deserve the trust, and that the eventual letdown will feel like betrayal. In a culture that sells self-assurance as a baseline personality trait, the quote offers a darker, truer dynamic: praise can be a burden, and being seen clearly can feel less like validation than exposure.

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Affleck, Casey. (2026, February 19). When I like someone a lot, I get scared that I'll let them down. My fear of sucking is worst when I feel like someone thinks I'm good! FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-like-someone-a-lot-i-get-scared-that-ill-41490/

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Affleck, Casey. "When I like someone a lot, I get scared that I'll let them down. My fear of sucking is worst when I feel like someone thinks I'm good!" FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-like-someone-a-lot-i-get-scared-that-ill-41490/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I like someone a lot, I get scared that I'll let them down. My fear of sucking is worst when I feel like someone thinks I'm good!" FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-like-someone-a-lot-i-get-scared-that-ill-41490/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Casey Affleck

Casey Affleck (born August 12, 1975) is a Actor from USA.

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