"When I play with my cat, who knows whether she is not amusing herself with me more than I with her"
About this Quote
The intent is skeptical in the best Renaissance sense: a check on human certainty. Montaigne’s Essays repeatedly circle one question - what makes us so sure we’re the measure of all things? Here, he uses play (an activity we treat as trivial) to smuggle in a serious epistemic problem: we cannot actually know the inner life of the other, and we are especially bad at admitting it when the other can’t speak back in our language.
The subtext is an attack on anthropocentrism disguised as charm. “Amusing herself with me” suggests agency, strategy, even taste. The cat becomes a critic, not a toy. Montaigne also tweaks the vanity of observation: you think you’re studying the animal, but you’re being studied, sized up, indulged.
Context matters. Writing amid religious wars and collapsing certainties, Montaigne built a philosophy out of humility and attention to ordinary experience. The cat is his quiet rebuke to grand systems: the world doesn’t arrange itself around our explanations, and the first step toward wisdom is noticing how easily we confuse dominance with understanding.
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| Topic | Cat |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Montaigne, Michel de. (2026, January 18). When I play with my cat, who knows whether she is not amusing herself with me more than I with her. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-play-with-my-cat-who-knows-whether-she-is-17432/
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Montaigne, Michel de. "When I play with my cat, who knows whether she is not amusing herself with me more than I with her." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-play-with-my-cat-who-knows-whether-she-is-17432/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I play with my cat, who knows whether she is not amusing herself with me more than I with her." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-play-with-my-cat-who-knows-whether-she-is-17432/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.










