"When I started to sing, my mother would have me engaged to perform at the Women's Christian Temperance Union national or annual meetings. I would hate doing this because I wanted to play baseball or go off skiing"
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The line “my mother would have me engaged” does quiet work. It’s business language, almost transactional, suggesting her voice was treated as an asset before it was fully her own. That phrasing also softens the accusation: she isn’t indicting her mother so much as describing a mechanism of ambition that many families recognize - opportunity arriving dressed as obligation.
Then comes the pivot: baseball, skiing. Not dainty alternatives, but kinetic, outdoorsy wants that cut against the image of the dutiful young singer trotted out for a worthy cause. It’s funny in its bluntness, and revealing in its gender subtext: the public stage she’s given is “women’s” and “Christian,” while the freedom she craves reads, culturally, as more boy-coded, more unruly.
Forrester’s intent feels less like complaint than calibration. She’s reminding us that great artists don’t always begin with a calling; sometimes they begin with a schedule - and a private resistance that keeps the self intact while the career is being built.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Forrester, Maureen. (2026, January 16). When I started to sing, my mother would have me engaged to perform at the Women's Christian Temperance Union national or annual meetings. I would hate doing this because I wanted to play baseball or go off skiing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-started-to-sing-my-mother-would-have-me-127756/
Chicago Style
Forrester, Maureen. "When I started to sing, my mother would have me engaged to perform at the Women's Christian Temperance Union national or annual meetings. I would hate doing this because I wanted to play baseball or go off skiing." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-started-to-sing-my-mother-would-have-me-127756/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I started to sing, my mother would have me engaged to perform at the Women's Christian Temperance Union national or annual meetings. I would hate doing this because I wanted to play baseball or go off skiing." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-started-to-sing-my-mother-would-have-me-127756/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.




