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Motherhood Quote by Cicely Tyson

"When I told my mother that I wanted to be an actress, she said, "You can't live here and do that", and so I moved out. I was determined to prove her wrong because she was so sure that I was going to go astray. And that's the juice that kept me going"

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Family doubt is rarely polite; it arrives as logistics. Cicely Tyson remembers her mother not as a villain but as a gatekeeper of survival, turning a dream into an ultimatum: you cannot live here and do that. The line lands because it captures how ambition, especially for Black women of Tyson's generation, was treated less like self-expression and more like a risk factor. Acting wasn’t just an artistic gamble; it was adjacent to “going astray,” a phrase that carries moral panic, class anxiety, and the fear of a world that chews up young women and spits them out with nothing to show.

Tyson’s response is clean, almost clinical: “so I moved out.” No melodrama, no mythologizing. That brevity is the point. It frames independence as a consequence, not a rebellion for its own sake. The subtext is that she understood the stakes and accepted the cost: if the price of pursuing a calling is losing shelter, you pay it and keep walking.

Then she flips the story’s engine. The fuel isn’t applause or destiny; it’s contradiction. “Prove her wrong” turns skepticism into propulsion, and “that’s the juice” is wonderfully unsentimental language for something people usually dress up as inspiration. Tyson names drive as an alchemy of pressure and pride: a young woman converting someone else’s certainty about her failure into an insistence on her own seriousness. It’s a portrait of ambition that doesn’t pretend confidence is innate; it’s built, in part, out of being underestimated.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tyson, Cicely. (2026, February 17). When I told my mother that I wanted to be an actress, she said, "You can't live here and do that", and so I moved out. I was determined to prove her wrong because she was so sure that I was going to go astray. And that's the juice that kept me going. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-told-my-mother-that-i-wanted-to-be-an-111473/

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Tyson, Cicely. "When I told my mother that I wanted to be an actress, she said, "You can't live here and do that", and so I moved out. I was determined to prove her wrong because she was so sure that I was going to go astray. And that's the juice that kept me going." FixQuotes. February 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-told-my-mother-that-i-wanted-to-be-an-111473/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I told my mother that I wanted to be an actress, she said, "You can't live here and do that", and so I moved out. I was determined to prove her wrong because she was so sure that I was going to go astray. And that's the juice that kept me going." FixQuotes, 17 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-told-my-mother-that-i-wanted-to-be-an-111473/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.

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Cicely Tyson (born December 19, 1933) is a Actress from USA.

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