"When I was 18 I went to college for two years and didn't work for a year which was essential for me, because my identity had been so influenced by my being an actor and I think I just needed to discover what it was to be myself, divorced from all that responsibility"
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The key phrase is “essential,” a word that reframes privilege as necessity while still acknowledging the cost of constant performance. Danes isn’t just talking about career burnout; she’s describing identity capture, the way a job can colonize a developing personality, especially when that job is literally to become other people on cue. “Responsibility” here is doing double duty: it’s the adult burden she was handed too early, and it’s the public’s expectation that a young star remain a reliable product.
There’s also a subtle, almost defensive precision in “divorced from all that responsibility,” as if she’s anticipating skepticism about stepping away. College becomes less a credentialing move than a controlled experiment in anonymity. The intent isn’t to valorize retreat; it’s to insist that a self can’t be built entirely in front of an audience. In a culture that treats constant output as moral virtue, Danes offers a rarer argument: sometimes the most disciplined thing you can do is stop performing and listen for the person underneath.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Danes, Claire. (2026, January 15). When I was 18 I went to college for two years and didn't work for a year which was essential for me, because my identity had been so influenced by my being an actor and I think I just needed to discover what it was to be myself, divorced from all that responsibility. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-18-i-went-to-college-for-two-years-and-141944/
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Danes, Claire. "When I was 18 I went to college for two years and didn't work for a year which was essential for me, because my identity had been so influenced by my being an actor and I think I just needed to discover what it was to be myself, divorced from all that responsibility." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-18-i-went-to-college-for-two-years-and-141944/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I was 18 I went to college for two years and didn't work for a year which was essential for me, because my identity had been so influenced by my being an actor and I think I just needed to discover what it was to be myself, divorced from all that responsibility." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-18-i-went-to-college-for-two-years-and-141944/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.



