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Marriage Quote by Pia Zadora

"When I was 21, I stopped and got married. I tried for a while to be the perfect wife, society this, society that, but it wasn't working, so after about a year I went back to work"

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A neat little demolition of the “perfect wife” myth, delivered with the brisk practicality of someone who’s already done the experiment and kept the receipts. Pia Zadora’s line works because it refuses the grand confessional arc people expect from women talking about marriage. She doesn’t romanticize the decision, or even dramatize it. She frames marriage as a stop on the route, then pivots to the real story: the cultural script she was asked to perform, and the moment she decided it wasn’t paying.

The key phrase is “society this, society that” - an eye-roll turned into shorthand. It’s not just that “society” is pressuring her; it’s that the pressure is so predictable it’s almost boring. That casual repetition is the subtext: she’s not battling a singular villain, she’s swatting away a whole fog of expectations about domestic femininity. “Tried for a while” and “after about a year” compress the timeline, suggesting how quickly the fantasy of perfection reveals itself as labor with no clear reward or identity.

Context matters: as an actress, Zadora is talking from inside an industry that historically punished women for aging, motherhood, or stepping out of a marketable persona. “Went back to work” isn’t just economic independence; it’s a return to self-definition in a world where marriage often tries to rebrand women as someone’s accessory. The intent reads less like rebellion for its own sake and more like a quiet insistence on adulthood: if a role doesn’t fit, you change the script.

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TopicHusband & Wife
Source
Later attribution: SPIN (1986) modern compilationID: 6_7o2bblz_cC
Text match: 98.65%   Provider: Google Books
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... When I was 21 I stopped and got married. I tried for a while to be the perfect wife, society this, society that, but it wasn't working, so after about a year I went back to work. Was your husband happy about that? He encouraged me. He ...
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Zadora, Pia. (2026, March 23). When I was 21, I stopped and got married. I tried for a while to be the perfect wife, society this, society that, but it wasn't working, so after about a year I went back to work. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-21-i-stopped-and-got-married-i-tried-109433/

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Zadora, Pia. "When I was 21, I stopped and got married. I tried for a while to be the perfect wife, society this, society that, but it wasn't working, so after about a year I went back to work." FixQuotes. March 23, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-21-i-stopped-and-got-married-i-tried-109433/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I was 21, I stopped and got married. I tried for a while to be the perfect wife, society this, society that, but it wasn't working, so after about a year I went back to work." FixQuotes, 23 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-21-i-stopped-and-got-married-i-tried-109433/. Accessed 7 Apr. 2026.

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Pia Zadora (born May 4, 1953) is a Actress from USA.

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