"When I was a junior, boys were allowed to come visit me at the house. We could sit on the porch until about 8 o'clock at night; that's when it started getting dark. That was it"
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Her phrasing is almost comically clipped: “That was it.” No melodrama, no lingering. The bluntness is the point. It mimics the rules themselves: simple, non-negotiable, unarguable. In a single beat, she captures how young women’s social lives were often engineered around containment, with safety and propriety used as the public-facing rationale. You can hear the unspoken logic: good girls are visible, supervised, and home before the world gets complicated.
As a pop-cultural figure who came up through 90s media, Fuentes is also indirectly marking a before-and-after. Her memory lands in a moment when courtship was still expected to be legible to parents and neighbors, when the household functioned like a gatekeeper to reputation. The subtext is less “weren’t those days simpler?” and more “look how normalized that control was.” The darkness isn’t just literal; it’s the line where autonomy begins, and where the rules rush in to stop it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fuentes, Daisy. (2026, January 17). When I was a junior, boys were allowed to come visit me at the house. We could sit on the porch until about 8 o'clock at night; that's when it started getting dark. That was it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-a-junior-boys-were-allowed-to-come-57733/
Chicago Style
Fuentes, Daisy. "When I was a junior, boys were allowed to come visit me at the house. We could sit on the porch until about 8 o'clock at night; that's when it started getting dark. That was it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-a-junior-boys-were-allowed-to-come-57733/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I was a junior, boys were allowed to come visit me at the house. We could sit on the porch until about 8 o'clock at night; that's when it started getting dark. That was it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-a-junior-boys-were-allowed-to-come-57733/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.





