"When I was much younger, I sometimes felt rejected by feminists because of an image that I sold because it paid the bills. Any fool could tell my hair is dyed"
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The subtext is less “I’m not like those other glamorous women” than “you can’t demand purity from someone operating inside a system that profits from her visibility.” Kendal locates the friction not in feminism itself but in its gatekeeping instincts, the way movements can slip into enforcing a narrow aesthetic of authenticity: natural hair, correct signaling, the right kind of female presentation. Her punchline - “Any fool could tell my hair is dyed” - is strategic deflation. It undercuts the whole premise that she was successfully selling an illusion, while also mocking the idea that artifice is automatically betrayal.
Context matters: Kendal came of age in a media ecosystem that rewarded a particular kind of “presentable” woman, then punished her for being “complicit” in meeting it. The quote works because it refuses the glamour-versus-politics binary and insists on a messier truth: survival sometimes looks like accommodation, and accommodation doesn’t cancel your awareness.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kendal, Felicity. (2026, January 17). When I was much younger, I sometimes felt rejected by feminists because of an image that I sold because it paid the bills. Any fool could tell my hair is dyed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-much-younger-i-sometimes-felt-rejected-59160/
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Kendal, Felicity. "When I was much younger, I sometimes felt rejected by feminists because of an image that I sold because it paid the bills. Any fool could tell my hair is dyed." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-much-younger-i-sometimes-felt-rejected-59160/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I was much younger, I sometimes felt rejected by feminists because of an image that I sold because it paid the bills. Any fool could tell my hair is dyed." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-much-younger-i-sometimes-felt-rejected-59160/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.


