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Parenting & Family Quote by River Phoenix

"When I was old enough to realize all meat was killed, I saw it as an irrational way of using our power, to take a weaker thing and mutilate it. It was like the way bullies would take control of younger kids in the schoolyard"

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Phoenix frames vegetarianism less as a lifestyle preference than as an ethical coming-of-age: the moment a child connects the abstract noun "meat" to an actual death, the language of dinner collapses into the language of violence. The line works because it refuses the usual soft-focus rhetoric of compassion and instead spotlights power. "Irrational" isn’t about nutrition; it’s about an imbalance that can’t justify itself once you see it clearly. He’s naming a kind of everyday dominion, the casual entitlement to turn a living thing into an object, then calling it what it feels like: mutilation.

The schoolyard analogy is the rhetorical knife. Everyone understands bullying as a misuse of strength, a social crime that thrives on impunity and normalization ("boys will be boys"). By yoking meat-eating to that familiar scene, Phoenix recasts a culturally protected practice as something morally adolescent: a habit maintained because it’s common, not because it’s defensible. The "weaker thing" phrasing is deliberately blunt, collapsing species difference into a single hierarchy and asking the listener to sit with the comparison.

Context matters: Phoenix wasn’t a cloistered moralist but a teen idol and working actor speaking from within celebrity culture, where image can flatten convictions into branding. His intent pushes against that flattening. He’s trying to make the ethical discomfort contagious, to replace the sanitized story we tell about food with a story about responsibility, and to suggest that growing up should mean outgrowing domination, not perfecting it.

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River Phoenix

River Phoenix (August 23, 1970 - October 31, 1993) was a Actor from USA.

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