"When I was outed, it was like, That's done"
About this Quote
“When I was outed” puts the agency where it belongs - not with her identity, but with the act done to her. Then she pivots to a startling kind of closure: “it was like, That’s done.” The subtext is survival. If you can’t control what the world reveals, you control what it means, and how long it gets to own you. The economy of language is athletic, too: quick assessment, no lingering, on to the next point. She’s translating humiliation into a finished play.
It also signals a generational difference in queer public life. Today, coming out can be framed as self-authorship; for King, the script was hijacked. Her line refuses to sentimentalize that theft, but it also refuses to let it define her. The cultural resonance is in that mix of resignation and steel: an unwilling initiation into visibility, met with the kind of composure that turns an attempted takedown into an endpoint.
Quote Details
| Topic | Human Rights |
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| Source | Verified source: The Advocate: Interview with Billie Jean King (Billie Jean King, 1998)
Evidence:
Well, that's what the tennis tour did. When I was outed, I felt I was then out. It was like, "That's done.". This is a transcript-style republication (via The Free Library) of an interview originally conducted by The Advocate when King was 55 (placing it in 1998). The wording shows the commonly-circulated shortened quote (“When I was outed, it was like, That's done”) is a truncated fragment; in the primary interview she says “When I was outed, I felt I was then out. It was like, 'That's done.'” I could not confirm an earlier primary source publication than this interview from the materials surfaced in this search session. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
King, Billie Jean. (2026, March 4). When I was outed, it was like, That's done. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-outed-it-was-like-thats-done-43949/
Chicago Style
King, Billie Jean. "When I was outed, it was like, That's done." FixQuotes. March 4, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-outed-it-was-like-thats-done-43949/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When I was outed, it was like, That's done." FixQuotes, 4 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-outed-it-was-like-thats-done-43949/. Accessed 7 Mar. 2026.







