"When I was very little, we would get letters from China, in Chinese, and they' be censored. We were a very insular little family"
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The subtext is about distance layered on distance. China is far away, Chinese is unreadable to most Americans, and censorship adds a final veil. Whatever those letters contained - affection, family updates, grief, ordinary gossip - arrives already filtered, a relationship pre-processed by politics. That’s the emotional payload behind “insular”: not merely sheltered, but sealed off, partially by circumstance and partially by force.
Context matters. Lin grows up as a Chinese American in the Cold War shadow, when China was often framed as threat and Chinese identity could be treated as suspicious. The censored letter becomes a miniature of that atmosphere: diaspora ties surveilled, belonging made conditional.
As an architect and memorial-maker, Lin has built a career around absence, silence, and what’s missing: negative space doing the speaking. This memory explains the instinct. Censorship teaches you to read gaps, to feel the shape of what’s been removed, to design with the knowledge that history arrives with redactions.
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"When I was very little, we would get letters from China, in Chinese, and they' be censored. We were a very insular little family." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-i-was-very-little-we-would-get-letters-from-12659/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.




