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Love Quote by Mary MacLane

"When I wrote my book I wanted to love someone. I wanted to be in love. Now I know that I shall never be in love - and I no longer wish to be"

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MacLane’s candor lands like a slammed door in a room full of sentimental wallpaper. She frames love not as fate but as a project she once tried to build with prose: when she wrote, she “wanted” to love, as if desire could be willed into chemistry by sheer literary effort. The shock comes in the pivot. “Now I know” isn’t wisdom in the cozy sense; it’s a verdict. The line strips romance of its cultural prestige and recasts it as something she has tested, found unavailable, and finally refused to keep auditioning for.

The subtext is less heartbreak than self-preservation. “I shall never be in love” reads like a diagnosis delivered after repeated symptoms: craving, performance, disappointment. But the most radical clause is the last one: “and I no longer wish to be.” That’s not resignation; it’s a reallocation of power. She’s rejecting the era’s default script for women - that fulfillment must route through romantic devotion - and she does it without pleading for sympathy. The sentence is engineered to deny the reader the usual comforts: no tragic soulmate, no moral lesson, no softened edges.

Context matters: MacLane wrote at the turn of the 20th century, when women’s interior lives were policed and “confession” could be both scandal and strategy. Her intent feels double: to expose the hunger that made her write, and to demonstrate that hunger can be outgrown. The statement doesn’t celebrate lovelessness; it exposes how exhausting it is to keep wanting what society insists you should want.

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Mary MacLane (1881 - 1929) was a Writer from Canada.

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