"When it comes to size, most people don't want to see themselves looking bigger than what they are"
About this Quote
The intent reads pragmatic, almost protective. As an artist whose early-2000s visuals were famously bold, playful, and deliberately strange, Elliott knows how the camera can amplify scrutiny. Her subtext isn’t just vanity; it’s self-defense in a culture that trains audiences to police bodies and trains performers to preempt that policing. “Most people” is doing a lot of work here: she’s universalizing the impulse to avoid looking larger, not because it’s noble, but because it’s learned.
Contextually, this sits inside decades of music-industry aesthetics where women, especially Black women, are judged with a cruel specificity. Elliott’s genius has often been to bend the frame before it can trap her. This quote acknowledges the trap: the fear isn’t only weight, it’s the gaze - and the way images can decide your worth before you get to.
Quote Details
| Topic | Humility |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Elliot, Missy. (2026, January 15). When it comes to size, most people don't want to see themselves looking bigger than what they are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-it-comes-to-size-most-people-dont-want-to-149153/
Chicago Style
Elliot, Missy. "When it comes to size, most people don't want to see themselves looking bigger than what they are." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-it-comes-to-size-most-people-dont-want-to-149153/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When it comes to size, most people don't want to see themselves looking bigger than what they are." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-it-comes-to-size-most-people-dont-want-to-149153/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.






