"When my father was arrested, we didn't know where they had him. My mother found him at the house of torture. It was called Villa Triste"
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Then she snaps the camera into focus: the mother "found him at the house of torture". The shift from not-knowing to knowing is not relief but escalation. In one move, Fallaci turns a private family search into an indictment of a system where torture isn’t a whispered allegation, it’s an address. Naming it "Villa Triste" is the cruel punchline. "Villa" suggests leisure, taste, even sunlight; "Triste" makes it sound like a melancholic resort. The euphemism is bureaucratic sadism: sanitize the unspeakable by giving it a postcard name. That’s how states normalize violence - not only by doing it, but by making it sound ordinary enough to file.
As a journalist, Fallaci’s intent isn’t just to confess trauma; it’s to establish credibility through witnessed specificity, the kind that defeats denial. The subtext is generational: the mother becomes the investigator when the institutions meant to protect family have been inverted into instruments of punishment. Context matters, too: Fallaci’s early life was shaped by wartime Italy and anti-fascist resistance. This line distills that history into a single chilling lesson about power - it doesn’t only break bodies, it breaks the map.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fallaci, Oriana. (2026, January 16). When my father was arrested, we didn't know where they had him. My mother found him at the house of torture. It was called Villa Triste. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-my-father-was-arrested-we-didnt-know-where-100935/
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Fallaci, Oriana. "When my father was arrested, we didn't know where they had him. My mother found him at the house of torture. It was called Villa Triste." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-my-father-was-arrested-we-didnt-know-where-100935/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When my father was arrested, we didn't know where they had him. My mother found him at the house of torture. It was called Villa Triste." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-my-father-was-arrested-we-didnt-know-where-100935/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.






