"When our interests matched, the Americans have been good to us, and when the interests differed, they wanted us to mold ourselves to them, which we refused"
About this Quote
The line “they wanted us to mold ourselves to them” is the emotional hinge. It turns diplomacy into humiliation, external pressure into an affront to national dignity. Assad isn’t just arguing policy; he’s offering an identity: we are the people who refuse to be reshaped. The “which we refused” is clipped and final, a posture of sovereignty that plays well domestically and with audiences predisposed to read U.S. power as coercive rather than persuasive.
Context matters: Assad speaks from a Syria long defined by balancing acts - leveraging regional leverage (Lebanon, Palestine, ties with Iran and Russia) while resisting Western conditionality. The quote is calibrated to justify endurance under sanctions and war by translating constraint into choice. If hardship is framed as the price of not “molding” to Washington, then suffering becomes proof of independence, and opposition becomes, conveniently, a proxy project rather than a homegrown revolt.
Quote Details
| Topic | Freedom |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
al-Assad, Bashar. (2026, January 17). When our interests matched, the Americans have been good to us, and when the interests differed, they wanted us to mold ourselves to them, which we refused. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-our-interests-matched-the-americans-have-38570/
Chicago Style
al-Assad, Bashar. "When our interests matched, the Americans have been good to us, and when the interests differed, they wanted us to mold ourselves to them, which we refused." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-our-interests-matched-the-americans-have-38570/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When our interests matched, the Americans have been good to us, and when the interests differed, they wanted us to mold ourselves to them, which we refused." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-our-interests-matched-the-americans-have-38570/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







