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Happiness Quote by Todd Solondz

"When part of what you're trying to get at is the truth hidden under a taboo, or when you want to nail a hypocrisy, laughter is a very useful tool. I want to show the painful side of existence, but there is no question I also want to make people laugh"

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Solondz is defending a particular kind of comedy: the kind that doesn’t soften reality so much as weaponize discomfort. His films trade in the awkward pause, the socially unspeakable, the moment you laugh and immediately wonder what that says about you. That’s not an accident; it’s the point. “Truth hidden under a taboo” signals a worldview where polite culture functions less as manners than as a lid, sealing off whatever would complicate our self-image: sexuality, cruelty, class shame, suburban despair. Comedy becomes the pry bar.

The line about “nail[ing] a hypocrisy” is the tell. Solondz isn’t chasing jokes for their own sake; he’s chasing the split between what people claim to be and what they do when nobody’s watching. Laughter, in his hands, is both solvent and trap. It dissolves the audience’s defenses just long enough to slip in something painful, then forces a reckoning: if you laughed, you participated. You recognized the pattern. You might even share it.

Context matters here. Coming out of the late-’90s American indie boom, Solondz built a reputation for stories set in the supposedly safe zones of American life - suburbs, families, schools - and then exposing the rot beneath the pastel. His insistence on pairing “the painful side of existence” with laughter is an argument against sanctimony: tragedy alone can become noble; comedy keeps it human, implicated, a little dirty.

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Solondz, Todd. (n.d.). When part of what you're trying to get at is the truth hidden under a taboo, or when you want to nail a hypocrisy, laughter is a very useful tool. I want to show the painful side of existence, but there is no question I also want to make people laugh. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-part-of-what-youre-trying-to-get-at-is-the-76701/

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Solondz, Todd. "When part of what you're trying to get at is the truth hidden under a taboo, or when you want to nail a hypocrisy, laughter is a very useful tool. I want to show the painful side of existence, but there is no question I also want to make people laugh." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-part-of-what-youre-trying-to-get-at-is-the-76701/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When part of what you're trying to get at is the truth hidden under a taboo, or when you want to nail a hypocrisy, laughter is a very useful tool. I want to show the painful side of existence, but there is no question I also want to make people laugh." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-part-of-what-youre-trying-to-get-at-is-the-76701/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Todd Solondz (born October 15, 1959) is a Writer from USA.

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