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Daily Inspiration Quote by David R. Brower

"When people say, 'You're not being realistic,' they're just trying to tag some thoughts that they can't otherwise handle"

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"You're not being realistic" is the polite-sounding club people reach for when they feel their worldview wobble. Brower hears the phrase less as a critique of facts than as a reflex of self-protection: a way to downgrade an unsettling idea into a personality flaw. Not wrong, just "unrealistic". Not a challenge, just "naive". The move is social as much as logical. It turns a debate about possibilities into a judgment about maturity, positioning the speaker as the adult in the room and the dreamer as a liability.

Brower’s intent is to expose that power play, especially in environmental politics where "realism" often means "whatever the market and the current administration will tolerate". In that world, realism becomes a costume for inertia: the language of balance sheets and incrementalism deployed to keep the horizon small. The subtext is that some thoughts are genuinely hard to handle because they imply responsibility. If we admit the scale of ecological damage, we can’t keep treating extraction as normal; we can’t keep outsourcing costs to future generations and calling it pragmatism.

Context matters: Brower spent his career fighting institutions that treated wilderness as a rounding error. He watched big projects sell themselves as practical necessities and dismiss dissent as sentimental. This line flips that script. It suggests that the "unrealistic" label often reveals not the weakness of the idea, but the weakness of the listener’s imagination and nerve. The real question isn’t whether a proposal fits today’s limits, but who benefits from those limits staying in place.

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Brower, David R. (n.d.). When people say, 'You're not being realistic,' they're just trying to tag some thoughts that they can't otherwise handle. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-people-say-youre-not-being-realistic-theyre-137434/

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Brower, David R. "When people say, 'You're not being realistic,' they're just trying to tag some thoughts that they can't otherwise handle." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-people-say-youre-not-being-realistic-theyre-137434/.

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"When people say, 'You're not being realistic,' they're just trying to tag some thoughts that they can't otherwise handle." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-people-say-youre-not-being-realistic-theyre-137434/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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David R. Brower (July 1, 1912 - November 5, 2000) was a Environmentalist from USA.

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