"When restraint and courtesy are added to strength, the latter becomes irresistible"
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The line is strategic as much as it is ethical. Gandhi isn’t praising politeness as a decorative virtue; he’s describing a technology of persuasion. Restraint signals control and discipline, implying a strength that could escalate but won’t. Courtesy disarms the expectation of hatred, making violence against such a figure look not just cruel but absurd. In political terms, he’s engineering legitimacy: the more humane the posture, the more illegitimate the repression appears.
The context is colonial rule and mass mobilization. Nonviolent resistance is often misread as passivity, but Gandhi reframes it as amplified power: the fusion of collective will with a deliberate refusal to mirror the oppressor’s methods. The “irresistible” part isn’t mystical. It’s the pressure created when your adversary’s options narrow to either negotiation or public brutality, and brutality becomes a public relations catastrophe.
Subtext: real strength is the capacity to choose your conduct under provocation. Courtesy becomes a form of dominance, not over people, but over the situation’s terms.
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