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Daily Inspiration Quote by Tennessee Williams

"When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone"

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Williams turns loneliness into a social offense, and the phrasing is the tell. “Inexcusably selfish” is courtroom language smuggled into an emotion most people treat as a private affliction. He’s not offering comfort; he’s indicting isolation as a kind of vanity, a way of hoarding pain when the supply is clearly abundant. The sly twist is “lonely alone”: the redundancy is deliberate, a little stutter that exposes how loneliness can become self-regarding, even theatrical. For a dramatist who built entire worlds out of people trapped in their own rooms and rituals, that’s not moralizing so much as stage direction.

The intent isn’t to deny loneliness; it’s to pressure it into motion. If “so many” are lonely, then loneliness stops being an identity and becomes a demographic fact - a crowd dispersed into separate corners. Williams implies there’s something almost perverse about suffering in solitude when there are others nearby suffering the same thing. The subtext: companionship doesn’t have to be romantic or salvific to matter; it can be as modest as mutual recognition, a refusal to let alienation have the last word.

Contextually, it fits mid-century America’s polished surfaces and private wreckage, the era his plays anatomize: desire and shame, need and performance, people desperate for touch but trained to call it weakness. Williams understands that loneliness feeds on the idea that it’s unique. His line punctures that illusion, proposing an ethics of solidarity: if the feeling is common, the response should be communal.

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Williams, Tennessee. (2026, January 18). When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-so-many-are-lonely-as-seem-to-be-lonely-it-10124/

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Williams, Tennessee. "When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-so-many-are-lonely-as-seem-to-be-lonely-it-10124/.

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"When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-so-many-are-lonely-as-seem-to-be-lonely-it-10124/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Tennessee Williams (March 26, 1911 - February 25, 1983) was a Dramatist from USA.

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