"When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone"
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The intent isn’t to deny loneliness; it’s to pressure it into motion. If “so many” are lonely, then loneliness stops being an identity and becomes a demographic fact - a crowd dispersed into separate corners. Williams implies there’s something almost perverse about suffering in solitude when there are others nearby suffering the same thing. The subtext: companionship doesn’t have to be romantic or salvific to matter; it can be as modest as mutual recognition, a refusal to let alienation have the last word.
Contextually, it fits mid-century America’s polished surfaces and private wreckage, the era his plays anatomize: desire and shame, need and performance, people desperate for touch but trained to call it weakness. Williams understands that loneliness feeds on the idea that it’s unique. His line punctures that illusion, proposing an ethics of solidarity: if the feeling is common, the response should be communal.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Williams, Tennessee. (2026, January 18). When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-so-many-are-lonely-as-seem-to-be-lonely-it-10124/
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Williams, Tennessee. "When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-so-many-are-lonely-as-seem-to-be-lonely-it-10124/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When so many are lonely as seem to be lonely, it would be inexcusably selfish to be lonely alone." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-so-many-are-lonely-as-seem-to-be-lonely-it-10124/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.









