"When something an affliction happens to you, you either let it defeat you, or you defeat it"
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The subtext tracks with Rousseau’s lifelong obsession with autonomy and corruption. In his world, the self is constantly at risk of being bent by forces it didn’t choose: social vanity, inequality, dependence, the judgment of others. “Affliction” can be read not only as personal hardship but as the broader condition of living inside systems that threaten to shrink the soul. The line insists that even when circumstances are unchosen, the inner stance is still a realm of freedom - and therefore responsibility.
Context matters because Rousseau’s own biography was a parade of illness, persecution, and paranoia, much of it real, some of it self-magnified. That makes the quote less a serene Stoic maxim than a kind of self-justifying credo: if he suffered, he could claim it sharpened his independence rather than exposed his fragility. It works because it flatters the reader’s desire to be the author of their life, even when the plot turns cruel.
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| Topic | Overcoming Obstacles |
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Rousseau, Jean-Jacques. (2026, January 17). When something an affliction happens to you, you either let it defeat you, or you defeat it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-something-an-affliction-happens-to-you-you-24347/
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Rousseau, Jean-Jacques. "When something an affliction happens to you, you either let it defeat you, or you defeat it." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-something-an-affliction-happens-to-you-you-24347/.
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"When something an affliction happens to you, you either let it defeat you, or you defeat it." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-something-an-affliction-happens-to-you-you-24347/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










