"When something really extreme happens, you have to find a way to embrace that and include it in how you think about the character. Sometimes it's not easy"
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The key verb is “embrace.” It’s not “understand” or “justify,” which would imply the event makes sense. “Embrace” implies physical closeness, even consent, to something you wouldn’t choose. That’s the subtext: extreme plot turns often feel imposed, artificial, even unfair - a writer’s wrench thrown into a life. The actor’s job is to make that wrench feel inevitable by incorporating it into “how you think,” the internal story engine that controls every glance, pause, and reaction.
“Sometimes it’s not easy” is the understated kicker. Stiers, known for balancing warmth and acerbic intelligence (think the controlled chaos of MASH), recognizes the gap between craft and comfort. Extreme turns can break continuity, strain empathy, or demand emotional colors the actor hasn’t located yet. His intent is pragmatic and humane: don’t fight the rupture; let it change the character’s logic, and let that change show.
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Stiers, David Ogden. (2026, January 16). When something really extreme happens, you have to find a way to embrace that and include it in how you think about the character. Sometimes it's not easy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-something-really-extreme-happens-you-have-to-108839/
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Stiers, David Ogden. "When something really extreme happens, you have to find a way to embrace that and include it in how you think about the character. Sometimes it's not easy." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-something-really-extreme-happens-you-have-to-108839/.
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"When something really extreme happens, you have to find a way to embrace that and include it in how you think about the character. Sometimes it's not easy." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-something-really-extreme-happens-you-have-to-108839/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.



