"When the going got tough, I really had to draw on many of the same competitive instincts I did when I was skating. I really had to put my head down and stay positive. I had to fight"
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The repeated “I really had to” reads like self-coaching, the internal talk of someone who’s spent years turning nerves into usable energy. “Draw on…competitive instincts” reframes adversity as an opponent: something you can study, anticipate, and outlast. It’s also a subtle refusal of victimhood. Fleming doesn’t claim toughness is glamorous; she describes it as work, almost manual labor.
“Put my head down” carries the athlete’s paradox: humility and intensity fused. It signals focus over performance, process over narrative. “Stay positive” could sound like sunshine-slogan fluff, but paired with “I had to fight,” it becomes a discipline, not a mood. Fighting here isn’t rage; it’s endurance, the choice to keep moving when momentum disappears.
Culturally, the quote lands as a corrective to the way we mythologize champions as effortless. Fleming points to a transferable skill set: pressure management, repetition, and the willingness to be unromantic about survival. The subtext is bracing: what saved her wasn’t inspiration, it was training.
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| Topic | Perseverance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Fleming, Peggy. (2026, January 15). When the going got tough, I really had to draw on many of the same competitive instincts I did when I was skating. I really had to put my head down and stay positive. I had to fight. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-going-got-tough-i-really-had-to-draw-on-164408/
Chicago Style
Fleming, Peggy. "When the going got tough, I really had to draw on many of the same competitive instincts I did when I was skating. I really had to put my head down and stay positive. I had to fight." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-going-got-tough-i-really-had-to-draw-on-164408/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When the going got tough, I really had to draw on many of the same competitive instincts I did when I was skating. I really had to put my head down and stay positive. I had to fight." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-going-got-tough-i-really-had-to-draw-on-164408/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




