"When the heart is right, 'for' and 'against' are forgotten"
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The “heart” here isn’t just sentiment; it’s xin, the mind-heart where perception, judgment, and desire braid together. Getting it “right” doesn’t mean becoming more convinced. It means becoming less captured by the reflex to take sides, to harden the world into opposing camps. That’s the subtext: binary thinking is a symptom of inner misalignment. When you’re off-center, you need “against” to feel stable. When you’re centered, you don’t.
The quote also performs a classic Zhuangzian move: it makes certainty look small. “Forgotten” is doing the heavy lifting, implying not a heroic refusal to choose but an almost comic irrelevance of choosing. The mind stops staging debates because it’s no longer trying to win them. In an era where identity is routinely built from oppositions, Zhuang Zi offers a quiet provocation: clarity may look less like a stronger argument and more like the ability to drop the argument entirely.
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Zi, Zhuang. (2026, January 15). When the heart is right, 'for' and 'against' are forgotten. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-heart-is-right-for-and-against-are-172054/
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Zi, Zhuang. "When the heart is right, 'for' and 'against' are forgotten." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-heart-is-right-for-and-against-are-172054/.
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"When the heart is right, 'for' and 'against' are forgotten." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-heart-is-right-for-and-against-are-172054/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











