"When the soldiers came home from Vietnam, there were no parades, no celebrations. So they built the Vietnam Memorial for themselves"
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The phrase “they built the Vietnam Memorial for themselves” does several things at once. It shifts agency to veterans, casting them as dignified artisans of their own recognition, but it also quietly indicts the civic sphere: if soldiers had to build their own memorial, the nation outsourced gratitude. The Memorial becomes less a monument to strategy or statecraft and more a workaround for political embarrassment. Westmoreland’s choice of “for themselves” is especially loaded. It suggests self-repair, even self-parenting, as if the country that sent them had no language for their grief once the war became morally and politically radioactive.
Context matters: Westmoreland was a central architect of the war’s public face, and this quote reads like an attempt to reclaim a cleaner narrative - to relocate the story from policy failure to personal sacrifice. It’s a deft rhetorical pivot. Instead of litigating why the parades didn’t happen, he spotlights the cost of their absence, framing the Memorial as both tribute and evidence of abandonment.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Westmoreland, William. (2026, January 16). When the soldiers came home from Vietnam, there were no parades, no celebrations. So they built the Vietnam Memorial for themselves. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-soldiers-came-home-from-vietnam-there-108280/
Chicago Style
Westmoreland, William. "When the soldiers came home from Vietnam, there were no parades, no celebrations. So they built the Vietnam Memorial for themselves." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-soldiers-came-home-from-vietnam-there-108280/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"When the soldiers came home from Vietnam, there were no parades, no celebrations. So they built the Vietnam Memorial for themselves." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/when-the-soldiers-came-home-from-vietnam-there-108280/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



